"We
cannot help speaking about what we have seen and heard"(Acts
4:20 -- Peter and John to the Sanhedrin)
Half of the unchurched Americans surveyed by Gallup
pollsters said they intend to return to active church
participation some day. Of that group, one in 5 said they
would start back to church if someone would just talk to
them about spiritual matters.
So, how do you start that conversation which may lead
people into a relationship with God and the assurance of
salvation?
Look through this list to find questions which would be
appropriate with:
- Someone you just met
- A long-time acquaintance
- A good friend
- A family member or a
"best" friend
Some of the questions
will initiate conversations that could be labeled
pre-evangelism.
This list is not designed to be pulled out of your
pocket or purse as you start talking to someone. These are
given to demonstrate the variety of ways that a conversation
can be steered to a deeper level.
Spiritual conversation
openers
General issues
- What gives most meaning to
your life?
- What, or who, are your
sources of strength in your day-to-day living?
- When you have problems or
crises, how do you manage to get through them?
- Is religion or God
important to you?
- In what ways?
- If not, is there any
particular reason why not?
- Wouldn't you like to have
faith in something?
Relationship questions
- Does God (or a Higher
Power) seem personal to you?
- Do you feel close to God?
- What is your picture of
God?
- What has God done for you?
- How is God working in your
life right now?
- Are you comfortable with
God's guidelines and laws for living?
- Do you feel there are any
barriers between you and God?
- Have you ever felt
anything against God?
- Have you ever done
anything for which you feel God could not forgive you?
- Do you understand the way
to forgiveness and what it means?
- Do you feel God has a plan
for your life?
- Do you feel you are living
up to what you feel God expects of you?
Devotional life and practice
- What kinds of devotional
readings do you like?
- What are your favorite
authors, writings?
- Do you like religious
music? Kinds? Favorites?
- Do you read the Bible?
- Do you understand what you
read?
- Does Bible reading help in
living? How?
- Is prayer a meaningful
part of your devotional life?
- Do you feel you are
growing spiritually?
The Church
- Are you involved in a
church?
- Is your church helpful to
you?
- Do you attend the worship
services of your church?
- What do you like most
about its teachings?
- Are you personally
acquainted with the pastor?
- Are you a member of an
accountability or nurturing group in your church?